Saturday, April 11, 2009

Easter Traditions

I really love Easter. When I was a little girl, my grandma Joyce used to take my sisters and I shopping for new Easter shoes. One year she even bought us all matching hats and dresses and I totally wanted gloves too - I remember. I pined for beautiful white, lacy Easter gloves. Easter is such a girl holiday - all the pastels, baby animals, and flowers - Oh, I loved it.
Boys are seriously different. I'm sorry but they just don't get all that excited about a new shirt and tie. They just don't. Oh, well. I won't let their gagging-at-frilly-hats-and-lacy-gloves-and-making-fun-of-twirling-little-girls attitude dampen my Easter spirit. There's always the Easter Egg Hunt tradition, of which my boys are huge fans. My mom is like a professional Easter Egg Hider. Every year she filled hundreds (no lie) of plastic eggs and hid them in our huge yard - really, really well. She used the ladder and the shovel - if that gives you an idea of the caliber of her egg-hiding skills. (okay, maybe not a shovel.) I remember the Easter it snowed like four feet. My mom was giddy hiding eggs in the snow bank. Rain or shine, my mom's Saturday morning Easter Egg hunt was on! And cousins, neighbors, and friends from all over would come with their baskets for hunting - followed by gorging. . . and sorting and trading Easter candy.
The best part? Finding candy-filled eggs in the yard months (or years) later and having a second (secret) little feast. Yum.
Besides Easter Clothes and the Easter Egg Hunt, here are a few more Easter traditions I have invented or adopted from friends and family over the years. I LIVE for holidays. Really. I do. And no matter how busy or exhausted I feel, I am a slave to TRADITION!

1) Dying Easter Eggs
Delicate eggs + dye + my children = big disaster every year. But it's still worth it. Because look how pretty!
2) The Great Big Especially Beautiful Easter Egg
This just might one of the best books ever written. I remember my mom reading it when we were kids and it always filled the day with magic! (Thanks Mom!)
3) Personalized Chocolate Eggs
YUM. Need I say more? (Thanks - for indulging all those years - Mom!)
4) Resurrection Cookies
Here's the recipe and story directions. My kids don't like eating these actually. But they LOVE making them. And it's a clever way to remember Easter. Besides. I could eat a million of these cookies. They're like straight sugar. Mmmmmm. (Thanks Sheralie!)
5) The Special Tomb
How do you teach the meaning of Christ's resurrection to children who don't really even get death? This is something I invented a few years ago for a Family Night lesson and now my kids ask to do it every year (although the surprise effect is lost after the first time). I tell each child to pick a toy or something (Isaac always picks his blue blanket) that they love more than anything else and to place it inside "the tomb" (a decorative box). We talk about how the people who loved Jesus placed his body in a tomb to show respect. Then a heavy stone was rolled in front to lock the tomb. We close the lid of the box and latch it. At the end of FHE (or the next morning) the children open the box to get their special toy but it's empty! (Nate and I have to be pretty sneaky). We talk about how surprised and sad Mary and the disciples must have been to see the empty tomb. The kids are so happy when we finally give them their things. We talk about how happy Mary must have been when Jesus called her by name and she realizes that he lives!
6) Sunday Morning Easter Baskets
I really can't stand the Easter Bunny. I love the tradition and symbolism of Easter Eggs. But the Easter Bunny does nothing for me (except make me roll my eyes and gag). Because of that, I have never liked the idea of the Easter Bunny leaving (dumb) presents (more toys we don't need) in baskets. And on Sunday!?! Okay, so then I read this idea in the Ensign (p. 70). I'm sold. From now on, we're doing Sunday Morning Easter Baskets. Not from the Easter Bunny - but still a fun surprise! (Thanks Ensign!)
7) A Hallway of Pictures
My mom used to put posters in our hallway depicting the events leading up to Christ's death and resurrection. So of course, my hallway is decorated now too. My kids like putting them in order and telling the story. (Thanks Mom!)
8) Easter Story Eggs
Each egg is numbered and contains a clue and a scripture. The kids take turns opening the eggs in order and telling each part of the story. (Thanks Cheryl!)

We missed you, family! Happy Easter.

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11 comments:

Michelle said...

Those are great ideas. I really like the hallway of pictures and the empty box fhe lesson. Thanks for sharing and Happy Easter!!

Aplanalps said...

Really great ideas. Hopefully I can remember them for next year....

Christina said...

I always get excited to see that you have posted. For reals. I love your posts. You are highly ambitious and I admire you for that. I love all your traditions. Our house is one where traditions go to die. That hallway of pictures would still be up come Halloween. Thanks for sharing and inspiring.

Jenny said...

I love when you share your traditions because many of them are Evans family traditions I want to carry on with my family and the new traditions you start are great ideas for adding to what we already have. I love the pictures. I can't wait to see you all again. I hope you had a happy Easter.

The Gunnerson Family said...

I am so glad there is someone else who understand the "fun" of raising boys. I too just about cry when I walk by the pretty pastel Easter dresses in the stores as I head to the sweater vests. I love all of the great things you do to make Easter special. I think that it will make all the difference in the world to our kids when we take the time to make things so special.

Drew said...

So I have to ask about the Easter Bunny thing. I also am one who does not care much for the Easter Bunny. Though my reasons stem more from weird memories of Bill and Ted's Bogus Journey.
But what do you tell your kids when they ask you why the Easter bunny brought the other kids stuff but he didn't bring them anything? Do you let them believe in the Easter Bunny, and if so what does he do? If not, don't you worry about them telling other kids there is no Easter Bunny.

Emily said...

okay. First of all. You don't have to worry about any of that if you live with Clayton - who doesn't buy the "Easter Bunny" for one second. Santa Claus? Totally. Hey - he's a jolly old man with a little magic who lives at the North Pole.
But the Easter Bunny? Seriously - it just doesn't add up.
Clayton won't tell anyone though because he just assumes that No ONE in their right mind REALLY believes in such a dumb, foolish thing - no matter how much they say they do.

Sheralie said...

I feel the same about the Easter Bunny. Can I just say you are amazing? Maybe you can help me see the light on holidays . . seriously I need help. Especially after seeing how fun you are! Maybe I should thank my lucky stars we didn't live near each other this year. If my children saw how festive you are (compared to me) I would never hear the end of it!

Emily said...

Those are great traditions! I hope I can be as cool as you when Kathryn is old enough to understand stuff like that :) I'm glad you guys had a good Easter!

Melissa said...

I love your posts because you remember our traditions as being way better than I really made them (which of course makes me feel great). I love the new ideas and am glad you are giving your boys such great memories and teaching moments.

Melanie Sharp said...

Emily! I just found your blog through Allison's and it's so fun to see what you're up to. It looks like life is going beautifully. My husband and I live just south of San Fran and have a little boy and girl. Life is wonderful. Great to "see" you! Take care - Melanie (Goates) Sharp